Make happen vs Let happen

Question Asker:

Written Answer:
You r struggling between listening to yr heart and to yr brain. This is a
tug-of-war between old paradigm and new paradigm.

When u tie it up between what u want and what u should, u always have to
complete the latter before u get the former, bcoz u believe it to be.

I experienced yr situation and I can understand yr feeling. The uneasiness
and uncomfortability of sitting relaxed and just doing nothing...it seems
not logical and rational at all, for we r brought up in the environment of
believing we have to take action to make something happen.

It is not a problem of American culture, but common among human race. Make
it happen but not let it happen.

Of coz like daydreamer said, if taking action can make u relief, go ahead
and take as much as u like. But, try to soften yr requirement lower and
lower every time. Meaning, soothing yrself to take less and less action
while keep on reminding yrself allowing more and more.

U know a lot but u do not believe equally! U get what u believe and not what
u know, in perfect proportion.

We sinked when we first time learned to swim, bcoz there was much resistance
in our body when we fear. We fear we would sink and finally we get what we
fear. Baby learns fast in swimming bcoz they did not learn to resist before.

We do not have to unlearn resistance if we never learned resistance.

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