Fixing the world is changing others’ creation, hence it is not possible. There is no need for you to fix this world, because only the world around you affects you, the worlds around others affect others. It is no point to go out and fix the worlds around them because they affect you not. When you are too eager to fix their worlds, you are creating their worlds in your experience, and their worlds become yours also. Allow them to create, to live in the worlds they have chosen, and allow yourself yours.
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Friday, February 24, 2006
Soliciting From Others
Transcribed from Abraham-Hicks' book: A New Beginning I
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Soliciting From Others
---
Even your greatest enemy has more points of harmony than of
disharmony. And so, as you are wanting to interact with a being
that you are not getting along with, with a being that rings your
warning bells continually, if you will intend to see that which you
approve of, if you intend to see that which you like, then you will
literally begin to solicit from that being, those things.
---
Are you understanding that in every relationship you have --
whenever you are having unpleasant experiences, you are attracting
the unpleasant experience because that is where you are giving your
attention.
---
Here is the principle, for it will apply regarding all things:
You see in this being all the things that you are wanting until you
are influenced by [another or your own habit] to look for flaws,
then you begin to SOLICIT, to SUMMON, to literally DRAW from that
being, the things that you don't like. Where before, before the
influence [to look for flaws], you were drawing the things that you
did like. Do you understand what we are saying? The "imperfect" or
the "perfect" person has nothing to do with it.
Q: OK. Now this person here, you're seeing all of these
imperfections, and you are literally drawing them out of him?
Abe: Indeed. He is becoming your creation.
---
You are seeing that which you are intending. He is as he always
has been. He is, as everyone is, a combination of all of these
things, you see. But you are drawing from hin -- just as you draw
from life -- that which you focus upon.
And if you focus upon that which you are wanting to see, that is
what you will draw into your experience -- whether you are talking
about the Universe, or one single soul.
---
The tendency is to blame the other for his imperfection. We are
wanting you to assume the responsibility for his imperfection as he
interacts with you, for you are soliciting it from him. The
tendency is to see a flaw in another and judge and blame the other,
and what we are saying to you is -- only what you see is there.
And so, now where are you? Now you are in the position where you
may have perfect relationships with everyone as you are clear about
what you are wanting as you are only seeing what you are wanting.
And when you see that which is not in harmony with who you are, look
away.
---
You are wanting to be ALLOWERS. And you will know when you have
achieved that when you are willing to allow another, even when the
other does not allow you. When you are able to allow, even when the
other is not allowing you -- you will have absolute freedom.
You see, the only thing that binds you is negativity. Without it
you are free, joyously. And so, as you look at another and see only
that which brings forth joy -- you are free. As you look at another
and see that which brings forth negativity -- you are bound by your
own decision of what you are soliciting.
We are wanting you to release the responsibility from all those
you are blaming for all of the things they are doing wrong and for
all of the ways they are messing up your life. They are not doing
it. You are doing it!
---
You solicit from you very own being that which you do not want to
be. As you look at yourself, and you see that which is wrong, you
see that which is not in harmony with your greater wanting -- and as
you do that, you create more.
See in yourselves that which you are wanting, and that is what
you will draw forth.
---
Soliciting From Others
---
Even your greatest enemy has more points of harmony than of
disharmony. And so, as you are wanting to interact with a being
that you are not getting along with, with a being that rings your
warning bells continually, if you will intend to see that which you
approve of, if you intend to see that which you like, then you will
literally begin to solicit from that being, those things.
---
Are you understanding that in every relationship you have --
whenever you are having unpleasant experiences, you are attracting
the unpleasant experience because that is where you are giving your
attention.
---
Here is the principle, for it will apply regarding all things:
You see in this being all the things that you are wanting until you
are influenced by [another or your own habit] to look for flaws,
then you begin to SOLICIT, to SUMMON, to literally DRAW from that
being, the things that you don't like. Where before, before the
influence [to look for flaws], you were drawing the things that you
did like. Do you understand what we are saying? The "imperfect" or
the "perfect" person has nothing to do with it.
Q: OK. Now this person here, you're seeing all of these
imperfections, and you are literally drawing them out of him?
Abe: Indeed. He is becoming your creation.
---
You are seeing that which you are intending. He is as he always
has been. He is, as everyone is, a combination of all of these
things, you see. But you are drawing from hin -- just as you draw
from life -- that which you focus upon.
And if you focus upon that which you are wanting to see, that is
what you will draw into your experience -- whether you are talking
about the Universe, or one single soul.
---
The tendency is to blame the other for his imperfection. We are
wanting you to assume the responsibility for his imperfection as he
interacts with you, for you are soliciting it from him. The
tendency is to see a flaw in another and judge and blame the other,
and what we are saying to you is -- only what you see is there.
And so, now where are you? Now you are in the position where you
may have perfect relationships with everyone as you are clear about
what you are wanting as you are only seeing what you are wanting.
And when you see that which is not in harmony with who you are, look
away.
---
You are wanting to be ALLOWERS. And you will know when you have
achieved that when you are willing to allow another, even when the
other does not allow you. When you are able to allow, even when the
other is not allowing you -- you will have absolute freedom.
You see, the only thing that binds you is negativity. Without it
you are free, joyously. And so, as you look at another and see only
that which brings forth joy -- you are free. As you look at another
and see that which brings forth negativity -- you are bound by your
own decision of what you are soliciting.
We are wanting you to release the responsibility from all those
you are blaming for all of the things they are doing wrong and for
all of the ways they are messing up your life. They are not doing
it. You are doing it!
---
You solicit from you very own being that which you do not want to
be. As you look at yourself, and you see that which is wrong, you
see that which is not in harmony with your greater wanting -- and as
you do that, you create more.
See in yourselves that which you are wanting, and that is what
you will draw forth.
Wednesday, February 22, 2006
What is Feeling Place?
Feeling place is your emotional position relative to what u r wanting, yr position at the emotional scale.Every thought is vibrational. IB projects to us, or feedbacks to us, emotionally thought by thought. Since human is creature of habit, we tend to think in some specific way repetitively. This is our belief, our dominant thought, and our emotional set point. We say set point bcoz out thoughts tend to settle down there, hence our emotions also settle down there accordingly. Yr feeling place is yr vibrational distance relative to what u r wanting, relative to who u really are, relative to how much u have summoned the source energy and allow.
Received by PurpleRain
Received by PurpleRain
吸引定律的证据
吸引定律的证据
为什么有些人很努力却无法成功？
为什么有些人很轻松却财源无穷？
为什么很多人的付出与回收不成正比？
为什么有些人付出的多，得到的少；有些人付出的少，得到的多？
为什么复制别人的行动却无法复制别人的成功？
为什么做同样的东西却得到不同样的结果？
为什么行动等量，方法如一，还是得不到同样的结果？
为什么有些人会中万字票？为什么有些人会中六合彩？这跟努力无关。
为什么有些人买彩券就是不会中？
为什么好运似乎老是发生在某某人的身上？
为什么会喜上加喜，祸不单行？
为什么会不来就不来，来的时候就一大堆一起来？
为什么改掉的习惯很容易死灰复燃？
为什么老毛病很难根治？
为什么有些问题就是发生在我的身上，而不发生在别人的身上？为什么发生在别人身上的问题却不发生在我的身上？为什么某些问题老是偏好发生在某些人的身上？
聚焦在问题，就很难解决问题……
走私、贩毒、抢劫、强奸
为什么以前我的脚板常常龟裂，现在却很快复原？
为什么我的鸡眼会消失？
巧合只是吸引定律把所有共振和鸣的人事物牵引到位的一种错觉……
没有巧合，难以成事
如果当晚我锁门，我的手机会失窃吗？如果我把手机收在抽屉，它会失窃吗？如果我关桌灯，它敢进来吗？如果我没戴眼罩，它敢进来吗？如果我早睡，半夜起来尿尿，它敢进来吗？
改变其中一个变数，很可能就不会发生。
没有巧合，难以成事；没有共振，难以巧合。
为什么随机散布的东西，最后总是会自组织起来？
为什么大象总是与小象自相似？
为什么历史总有自重复的倾向？
为什么会物以类聚，人以群分？
为什么同样羽毛的鸟会聚在一起？
为什么有些人很努力却无法成功？
为什么有些人很轻松却财源无穷？
为什么很多人的付出与回收不成正比？
为什么有些人付出的多，得到的少；有些人付出的少，得到的多？
为什么复制别人的行动却无法复制别人的成功？
为什么做同样的东西却得到不同样的结果？
为什么行动等量，方法如一，还是得不到同样的结果？
为什么有些人会中万字票？为什么有些人会中六合彩？这跟努力无关。
为什么有些人买彩券就是不会中？
为什么好运似乎老是发生在某某人的身上？
为什么会喜上加喜，祸不单行？
为什么会不来就不来，来的时候就一大堆一起来？
为什么改掉的习惯很容易死灰复燃？
为什么老毛病很难根治？
为什么有些问题就是发生在我的身上，而不发生在别人的身上？为什么发生在别人身上的问题却不发生在我的身上？为什么某些问题老是偏好发生在某些人的身上？
聚焦在问题，就很难解决问题……
走私、贩毒、抢劫、强奸
为什么以前我的脚板常常龟裂，现在却很快复原？
为什么我的鸡眼会消失？
巧合只是吸引定律把所有共振和鸣的人事物牵引到位的一种错觉……
没有巧合，难以成事
如果当晚我锁门，我的手机会失窃吗？如果我把手机收在抽屉，它会失窃吗？如果我关桌灯，它敢进来吗？如果我没戴眼罩，它敢进来吗？如果我早睡，半夜起来尿尿，它敢进来吗？
改变其中一个变数，很可能就不会发生。
没有巧合，难以成事；没有共振，难以巧合。
为什么随机散布的东西，最后总是会自组织起来？
为什么大象总是与小象自相似？
为什么历史总有自重复的倾向？
为什么会物以类聚，人以群分？
为什么同样羽毛的鸟会聚在一起？
Thursday, January 19, 2006
你只能改变你所创造的
紫雨：电话还是找不到怎么办？
神：你觉得你的振频和情绪状态是否和找回手机这件事和鸣呢？
紫雨：我还是难免倾向于负面情绪。
神：这就是了。你倾向负面情绪表示你倾向负面思考，你倾向负面思考表示你倾向负面吸引，表示你倾向让事情维持原状，表示你对遗失手机的吸引力大于你对找回手机的吸引力。你看，遗失手机或找回手机其实都是同一件事，只是同一件事相对的两个面向而已。如果你能够接受并承认，这是你自己创造出来的，如果你能够承认并且接受，这是你自己吸引回来的，则你能够改变它。
紫雨：为什么？
神：道理很简单！只有你创造出来的你才能够改变，只有你吸引回来的你才能够扭转！如果一开始这个经验就不是你自己创造出来或吸引回来的，换句话说是别人强加于你或硬塞进来的话，则这改变就由不得你。因为就算你想要改变，就算你想要扭转，如果强加于你的人不同意，则你终将继续成为他的受害者！你的一切改变与扭转需要得到他的点头。问题是：如果他是有意如此，为什么他要答应你呢？
只有承认这是你自己创造出来并且吸引回来的，你才能够改变与扭转。因为，既然这是我的造物，我就能够重新创造它；既然这是我所吸引的，我就能够吸引别的……
紫雨：那我该怎么办？
神：既然你已经找过了所有地方，目前再从行动的层面去解决这个问题显然是无效的。你怎么吸引回来的，就怎么吸引另一面回来。记住：找回只是遗失的另一面，都是同一样东西的不同面向而已，它没有你想象的那么复杂困难。想象失而复得的喜悦，想象你和它同在的快乐时光，想象多年以后你回忆起这件事情你跟其他人谈起如何把遗失的东西吸引出来……把你所有的意念往“找回”这个方向投掷。
除非你先能够扭转你意念的方向，改变你情绪的航向，否则局面不可能扭转，结果不可能不同。
紫雨：但是这要等多久？我经不起等，因为电话很重要，每一天都要用到。
神：把时限从你的焦点移除。人们对时间并没有建立起一个正确的认识。人们总是觉得时间是不够的，这是跟人类觉得一切都是不够的匮乏信念一致的。
你要做的就是尽量让自己放松、舒缓，找到找回的感觉，然后让吸引定律为你工作。靠下来、歇歇脚，喝杯茶、赏赏花，然后静观其变……你找回的速度，取决于你舒缓的程度，你有多快能够感觉到位：找回重新拥有的感觉！
紫雨：我明白你的意思，虽然很难，但是我会尽量去做。
神：当你在说难，你就为舒缓设下路障；当你说你会尽量，你就又把它变成一种“有为”的行动。现在你想要扭转局面，就不要再为这重新创造设下重重路障。不要想难不要想尽量，只是轻轻地告诉自己：怎样吸引这一面回来，就怎样吸引另一面回来。这只是同一样东西的不同面向，我之前吸引了我所要的面向（买下手机），后来又吸引了我不要的面向（遗失手机），现在我要做的只是重新吸引我所要的面向而已（找回手机）。
吸引是一个自然的过程，是一个无为的过程，不要太用力。用力就变成有为，有为就变成从物质的层面去解决问题，而这种创造力量是十分有限而且微不足道的！吸引是从根源的层面去解决问题，借助吸引定律和宇宙源能的力量来解决问题。
紫雨：好，谢谢你！
神：你觉得你的振频和情绪状态是否和找回手机这件事和鸣呢？
紫雨：我还是难免倾向于负面情绪。
神：这就是了。你倾向负面情绪表示你倾向负面思考，你倾向负面思考表示你倾向负面吸引，表示你倾向让事情维持原状，表示你对遗失手机的吸引力大于你对找回手机的吸引力。你看，遗失手机或找回手机其实都是同一件事，只是同一件事相对的两个面向而已。如果你能够接受并承认，这是你自己创造出来的，如果你能够承认并且接受，这是你自己吸引回来的，则你能够改变它。
紫雨：为什么？
神：道理很简单！只有你创造出来的你才能够改变，只有你吸引回来的你才能够扭转！如果一开始这个经验就不是你自己创造出来或吸引回来的，换句话说是别人强加于你或硬塞进来的话，则这改变就由不得你。因为就算你想要改变，就算你想要扭转，如果强加于你的人不同意，则你终将继续成为他的受害者！你的一切改变与扭转需要得到他的点头。问题是：如果他是有意如此，为什么他要答应你呢？
只有承认这是你自己创造出来并且吸引回来的，你才能够改变与扭转。因为，既然这是我的造物，我就能够重新创造它；既然这是我所吸引的，我就能够吸引别的……
紫雨：那我该怎么办？
神：既然你已经找过了所有地方，目前再从行动的层面去解决这个问题显然是无效的。你怎么吸引回来的，就怎么吸引另一面回来。记住：找回只是遗失的另一面，都是同一样东西的不同面向而已，它没有你想象的那么复杂困难。想象失而复得的喜悦，想象你和它同在的快乐时光，想象多年以后你回忆起这件事情你跟其他人谈起如何把遗失的东西吸引出来……把你所有的意念往“找回”这个方向投掷。
除非你先能够扭转你意念的方向，改变你情绪的航向，否则局面不可能扭转，结果不可能不同。
紫雨：但是这要等多久？我经不起等，因为电话很重要，每一天都要用到。
神：把时限从你的焦点移除。人们对时间并没有建立起一个正确的认识。人们总是觉得时间是不够的，这是跟人类觉得一切都是不够的匮乏信念一致的。
你要做的就是尽量让自己放松、舒缓，找到找回的感觉，然后让吸引定律为你工作。靠下来、歇歇脚，喝杯茶、赏赏花，然后静观其变……你找回的速度，取决于你舒缓的程度，你有多快能够感觉到位：找回重新拥有的感觉！
紫雨：我明白你的意思，虽然很难，但是我会尽量去做。
神：当你在说难，你就为舒缓设下路障；当你说你会尽量，你就又把它变成一种“有为”的行动。现在你想要扭转局面，就不要再为这重新创造设下重重路障。不要想难不要想尽量，只是轻轻地告诉自己：怎样吸引这一面回来，就怎样吸引另一面回来。这只是同一样东西的不同面向，我之前吸引了我所要的面向（买下手机），后来又吸引了我不要的面向（遗失手机），现在我要做的只是重新吸引我所要的面向而已（找回手机）。
吸引是一个自然的过程，是一个无为的过程，不要太用力。用力就变成有为，有为就变成从物质的层面去解决问题，而这种创造力量是十分有限而且微不足道的！吸引是从根源的层面去解决问题，借助吸引定律和宇宙源能的力量来解决问题。
紫雨：好，谢谢你！
Wednesday, January 04, 2006
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